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别再拿自己跟他人比较

时间:2011-08-24 21:14:50  来源:  作者:

别再拿自己跟他人比较
We live in a world that where there is so much competition. Every single person has a desire to succeed and be the best at what they do. There are college basketball players dreaming of getting to the professional level, students trying their best to get an “A” on their math test, and even people in the professional world competing with one another to get that promotion they want.
我们生活在一个到处充斥着竞争的世界。每个人有希望自己能成功,自己能做到最好。有梦想着达到专业水平的大学篮球运动员,有努力在数学考试中取得“A”的学生,甚至还有为得到晋升而彼此间互相竞争的专业人士。2
We watch Hollywood stars on TV getting Oscars, or sometimes we meet people that have accumulated a lot of wealth, and some of us also have peers that have graduated with honors from high school or college. We all have a role model we look up to or have looked up to at some point in life, whether it is a family member, a friend, or a very famous person. We emulate these people since they all inspire us and motivate us to reach our own goals as well.
我们看着电视上的好莱坞明星获得奥斯卡奖,或者有时我们会遇到一些积累了巨额财富的人,我们中的一些人还会有同学以十分优异的成绩从高中或大学毕业。在人生中的某些时候,我们都有自己崇拜或不得不崇拜的榜样,可能是我们的家庭成员、朋友,或是一位名人。我们要尽力赶超这些人,因为他们启发了我们,也激励着我们去实现自己的目标。2
It is great having role models and looking up to people that motivate us but let me ask you this. How often do you ask yourself , “hey why is he/she smarter then me or “how did this person achieve great success at such a young age”. I went to a high school that was very competitive and saw very bright students graduate and get into Ivy League schools. I also remember getting my math test back and sometimes wondered why I never got consistent “A”s like the student sitting two seats away from me. When I saw someone perform better then me in academics or sports I had the habit of saying, “wow this person is amazing I can never be like that.”
有自己的榜样并且能尊敬那些激励自己的人是很好的,但是让我问你个问题。你多长时间问自己一次“嗨,为什么他/她比我聪明”或者“这个人是如何在这么年轻时就取得巨大的成功的”?我在一所竞争激烈的高中上学,看到非常聪明的学生毕业后进入了长春藤名校。我也记得自己拿回了数学考试成绩,有时疑惑为什么我从未像和我隔着两个座位的同学那样一直得“A”呢?当我看到有人在学习或体育方面表现比我好时,我习惯说,“哇,这个人真棒,我永远都不会像他那样。”
However what I learnt coming into college was that one should never compare their skills or levels of success with other people. Every single person is different and we all have some sort of unique talent. If you are not good at something or want to improve at a specific skill, you have to learn how to be patient and understand your weaknesses. Some of us don’t want to admit our errors and some of us hesitate to spend time thinking on how we can work on improving ourselves. Instead, some of us just look at people better then us and say, “ I can never be a honor student like him”, “ I can never run faster then my other peers”, “ I can never get a great job like that other person because I don’t have the talent”.
然而我进入大学后学到的则是,一个人不应该跟他人比较技能或是成功的程度。每一个人都是不同的,我们都具有某种独特的天分。如果你在某一领域并不擅长,或者想要提升某个特殊的技能,那么你就得学会如何变得有耐心并了解自己的短处。我们中的有些人不想承认自己的失误,还有些人却不愿花时间去思考如何去提升自己。相反,有些人仅仅看到别人比我们自己强,然后说,“我永远不会像他那么优秀了”,“我永远不会跑得比我的同学快了”,“我永远不会有一份像别人那么好的工作了,因为我没天分”。
The truth is you can all become an honor student if you want or improve on your running skills. But you have to keep in mind that understanding your weaknesses and strengths are very important in the process. You have to learn how to look at yourself and set goals step by step so that you can track your improvement. If you want to get an “A” in your weakest subject in school, you need to learn how to come up with new study habits or spend time studying more efficiently. If want to be a faster runner you need to look at yourself and pin point where your weakness is whether it is nutrition or your workout routine that needs to be adjusted. Some people look a very talented person and wonder why they are great at what they do and want to be the same yet they don’t have the patience to figure who they are themselves.
事实上,只要你想,你当然可以成为一个优秀的学生,或者提升自己的跑步技能。但是你必须记住,了解自己的优缺点在这一过程中非常重要。你必须学会如何看待自己,一步一步地设定目标从而可以追踪你的进步。如果你想在学校里最弱的一门功课中获得“A”,你需要学会如何养成一个新的学习习惯,或者花时间更高效地学习。如果你想跑得更快,你需要审视一下自己,找出你的弱势在哪里,是需要调整营养摄取还是锻炼程序。有些人看到一个非常有才干的人就想知道为何他们这么出色,并想成为一样的人,但是他们却没有耐心去认清自己是什么样的人。

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