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博得陌生人一笑的88种方法

时间:2011-05-22 09:17:21  来源:  作者:

不要等待陌生人对你微笑,先对他们微笑。
Let your guard down. Talk to someone you don’t know straight from your heart. Compliment them. Don’t anticipate awkwardness. Just be you in that beautiful way only you know and give them the chance to smile and connect with you.
  放下心中的戒备,发自内心的去向陌生人讲话,由衷的赞美他们。不要去想会尴尬,做回真正的自己并且给予他们机会可以对你微笑,和你交谈。
Remember, your best friend was once a stranger too.
  要记得,你最好的朋友对你来说曾经也是陌生人。
Love whoever is around to be loved.-Kurt Vonnegut
  爱你身边所有的人。——库尔特·冯内古特(Kurt Vonnegut)
1 Smile often.
  1.经常微笑。
2 Hold a door open for someone.
   2.为别人开门。

3 Pay for the person in line behind you.
  3.为你身后的人买单。
4 Send a hand-written thank you card to someone who assisted you with something.
  4.给帮助过你的人写一封感谢信。
5 Clean out all your old clothes and donate them to someone in need.
  5.打包你的旧衣服并且送给需要的人。
6 Give a compliment about a waiter, waitress, sales clerk, etc. to his or her manager.
  6.为服务生或者售货员的服务向他或她的上司表示感谢。
7 Compliment a stranger’s appearance. Flatter them.
  7.夸奖陌生人的外表衣着。
8 Leave encouraging post-it notes in a library books and other random places. (Read Operation Beautiful.)
  8.在图书馆的书中或者其他的某个地方留下鼓励的便条。(参见Operation Beautiful)
9 Help an elderly person carry something.
  9.帮助老人搬东西。
10 Send flowers to someone anonymously.
  10.匿名送花给别人。

11 Be a courteous driver. Let people merge in front of you.
  11.做一名有礼貌的司机,允许别人可以超车。
12 Volunteer at a children’s hospital or nursing home.
  12.在儿童医院或者养老中心做志愿者
13 Donate blood.
  13.去献血。
14 Buy house warming gifts for new neighbors.
  14.为新邻居乔迁之喜买礼物。
15 Introduce yourself. Make new colleagues, classmates, etc. feel welcome.
  15.自我介绍,结交新的同事和同学等,让他们感到受欢迎。
16 Inspire others online. (Check out Makes Me Think.)
  16.在线鼓励别人。(参见Makes Me Think)
17 Send letters of appreciation to business owners/managers and other people who support you.
  17.给帮助支持你的老板等人寄感谢信。
18 Treat everyone with the same level of respect you’d give to your grandfather.
  18.像对待长辈一样尊敬的对待别人。
19 Give everyone the same level of patience you’d have with your baby sister.
  19.像对待孩子一样耐心的对待别人。
20 Appreciate people the way they are.
  20.欣赏人们做事的风格。
21 Share your lunch or a snack with someone who doesn’t have one.
  21.与人分享自己的午餐或者小吃。
22 Put some change in an expired parking meter.
  22.向停车计时器放几枚硬币。
23 Check up on someone who looks lonely.
  23.向看起来孤独的人问候。
24 Tell your boss, teacher or professor that he or she is doing a great job and that you appreciate what they’ve taught you.
  24.向你的上司,老师或教授表示对其出色的工作和对自己的指导由衷的感谢。
25 Create places and things for others to enjoy. Like decorating your house for the holidays or creating a piece of art.
  25.为别人创造娱乐的条件。比如说为了节假日装修你的房子或者做一件艺术品。
26 If you overhear that it’s someone’s birthday, go out of your way to wish them a happy one.
  26.要是你听说了睡的生日,放下做的事去为他们祝福。
27 Ask someone for their opinion or advice.
  27.向某人请教想法或者建议。
28 Bring cookies or bagels to work for everyone.
  28.带上饼干和面包圈给大家。
29 Tip waiters and waitresses well when they deserve it.
  29.给足服务员的小费。
30 Be a part of something you believe in. Those around you will notice your enthusiasm. (Read The Alchemist.)
  30.致力于所信奉的事,你身边的人会注意到你的激情。(参见The Alchemist)
31 Leave a thank-you note for the office janitors.
  31.给办公室的看门人留个感谢变条。
32 Help bag your own groceries at the checkout counter.
  32.在杂货店的收银台买单时帮忙打包自己的东西。
33 Offer your seat to someone when there aren’t any left.
  33.车上没座位时给人让座。
34 Let someone with only a few items cut you in line at the grocery store.
  34.允许杂货店中带着东西的顾客加塞。

35 Wave to a kid in the car next to you.
  35.向旁边车里的小孩打招呼。
36 Spread good news.
  36. 发布好消息。
37 Repeat something nice you heard about someone else.
  37.传播你所听到别人的善举。
38 Remember people’s names and address them accordingly.

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