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为什么我们不能和我们的好朋友发生恋情

时间:2013-03-11 05:05:52  来源:  作者:

我们都曾有过那么一刻,会和自己的朋友甚至是好朋友产生感情。如果你陷入这段感情并且很享受,而你的朋友也不介意,那这也未尝不可。如果这正是你想要的那种感觉,那么在你试图和你的好朋友有进一步发展之前,你需要表现得成熟点。因为这种情形可能会使你们两个产生许多的失望,或者会伤害到你们现在所拥有的感情。如果你想公开你对好友的感情,而他并没有给你任何暗示,那么你最好再想一想。如果你很幸运,知道好友跟你有一样的感觉,那么你可以尝试一下。但如果对方没有应答,没有回馈,或者没有任何感觉,你可能就要失望了。爱情是一种可遇而不可求的感觉,遇上了就要好好珍惜,并要懂得尊重。我们真应该坐下来好好想想为什么想要进一步发展感情。问自己以下几个问题。这份感情适合我吗?我们会有未来吗?我对好友有没有吸引力?我喜欢ta哪里?我是否害怕孤单?


 

Sometimes it is better to keep a best friend a friend and stay that way. When you cross the line with your best friend, your friendship will be changed forever. Even if you can put what happened or what was said behind you, one of you may end up broken hearted because these feelings brought up were not acknowledged in the end. This can lead to resentment and jealousy in the future and destroy a friendship. Because two friends hang out so much together, the one that is in love or has an attraction begins to see themselves as a couple. This can end up becoming a distorted view and can result in so many painful feelings when the feelings are not returned. Unrequited love is a hard situation to go through and can take a long time to heal from. This is why in some friendships it is best to reconsider before taking the friendship to a new level.
有时候和好朋友保持朋友的距离会更好。当你和你的好朋友越界了,你们的友谊就再也回不到过去了。即使你可以不计较你们之间发生的事或者说过的话,总有一个人会因为那最后无法在一起的感情而伤心。这可能会引起日后的怨恨和嫉妒,从而毁坏了以前的友谊。因为两个朋友经常一起出去玩儿的话,爱恋者或者说喜欢朋友的那一个就会开始把他们自己当做是情侣。这可能会引起误会,当感情没有得到回报时也会产生很多痛苦。没有回报的爱是很痛苦的,需要很长时间才能治愈。这就是为什么在某些友情中需要再三考虑是否将友谊上升一个等级。

Many people think how wonderful it will be to begin a new love relationship with their best friend. They are around all the time, they trust you, you trust them, their cute enough, they are a good friend..there is no reason not to! But there is something missing though and that is the level of love and passion that happens and sparks between two people when they fall in love. Make sure you really think this one over before making any sudden moves because your choice can result in three different ways. You either are best friends for life, broken hearted, or for the lucky ones; you have your soul mate. This is quite the gamble to take, so think it through before you jump the gun.
很多人认为和他们的好朋友产生爱情是多么美好的事啊。他们可以一直在一起,他们信任你,你也信任他们,他们十分可爱,他们也是一个很好的朋友……似乎没有什么理由不在一起!但有些东西不能错过,那就是在他们恋爱的时候,两个人之间需要碰撞摩擦出爱情与激情的火花。在你采取任何冲动的行动前一定要仔细考虑这个问题,因为你的选择可能会导致三种不同的后果。你们要么成为终生的好友,要么有人伤心,要么成为幸运的一对,有情人终成眷属。和自己的朋友发生感情就像是一场赌博,所以在你触碰警戒线时要再三思量。
 

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