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离婚对孩子有何影响?

时间:2011-08-26 10:00:28  来源:  作者:

What Should You Know About Children And Divorce?
父母离婚对子女将会产生什么影响呢?
I'm always taken aback when I communicate with parents who have no understanding of the devastation divorce cause's children. Our society wants or needs to gloss over the negative effects divorce has on children, both in the long-term and short-term.
当我同那些意识不到离婚会对子女带来巨大打击的父母交谈时,我往往为之震惊。我们所生存的社会缺少或者说需要汇总离婚对孩子所产生的一系列短期或者长期的负面影响。
Divorce is a new beginning for the parent who wants the divorce. For children it is a destruction of the stability that comes from living in an intact family. As a parent I've always thought it was my place to put my needs after the needs of my children.
离婚对父母双方而言是一个全新的开始,而对其子女来说,则意味着一个完整的家庭才具有的稳定性被彻底打破。作为一个母亲,我一直觉得把孩子的需要放在首位是我的责任。
Are we now living in a day and age where the role of parenting has changed? From what I've witnessed the world is full of children who wish the two people they love the most...Mom and Dad had tried harder to save their family.
在我们现在所处的年代,是不是父母的角色发生变化了?据我所知,在这个世界上到处都有渴望自己最爱的二个人——妈妈和爸爸能够为挽救自己的家庭多做些努力的孩子。
Neil Lyndon, a writer who has been divorce three times put it this way, "we act as if every obligation could be abandoned, every promise could be broken, and every duty could be dropped whenever the whim arose. That included our obligations to our defenseless, innocent children."
作家尼尔·莱顿离过三次婚,他说:“一旦我们随心所欲,做出草率离婚的行为,就好似我们可以不履行所有义务,可以打破许下的所有诺言,可以抛弃所肩负的一切责任。这其中包括我们对处于被动地位的无辜的孩子的责任。”
Mr. Lyndon knows what ever parent should know about divorce and children because he has witnessed firsthand what divorce did to his son and step-children. Don't make the same mistakes he made, stop and think before you put your child through the emotional pain of divorce in your attempt to find "happiness."
莱顿先生了解离异对子女的影响,这是因为他亲眼目睹了离异对他的儿子及继子们所带来的一切,这种负面影响也是每个 为人父母都应该知道的。不要再犯他曾经犯下的错误了,在你试图寻求个人的“幸福”时,先停下来,好好想一想你的孩子在你离婚后所要经受的巨大痛苦吧。
 

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